I'm not desperate but do desire some companionship at times. i'm concerned more about the Godly character of a man, then how he loves and respects others. i feel appearance is important both in hygiene and dress and hairstyle. i feel the same concerning myself with others. do not like to have someone be too aggressive and so appreciate HUMILITY in a person's life. how one talks and their manner of conversation is very important to me. no smokers, cussers, off colored jokes etc. i don't expect out of others what i don't expect from myself.